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Feminism is not about who opens the jar.

It is not about who pays for the date. It is not about who moves the couch. It is not about who kills the bugs. It is not about who cooks the dinner. It’s not even about who stays home with the kids, as long as the decision was made together, after thinking carefully about your situation and coming to an agreement that makes sense for your particular marriage and family.

It is about making sure that nobody ever has to do anything by “default” because of their gender. The stronger person should move the couch. The person who enjoys cooking more, has more time for it, and/or is better at it should do the cooking. Sometimes the stronger person is male, sometimes not. Sometimes the person who is best suited for cooking is female, sometimes not. You should do what works.

But it is also about letting people know that it is okay to change. If you’re a woman who wants to become stronger, that’s great. If you’re a man who wants to learn how to cook, that’s also great. You might start out with a relationship where the guy opens all the jars and the girl cooks all the meals, but you might find that you want to try something else. So try it.

Ahh, the migration of the rare golden retriever fish. What a rare and beautiful sight in nature.

Ahh, the migration of the rare golden retriever fish. What a rare and beautiful sight in nature.

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elenamorelli:

{ ‘h’ is for ‘hell yeah, let’s go!’ }

elenamorelli:

{ ‘h’ is for ‘hell yeah, let’s go!’ }

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jeremylawson:

Beautiful little house

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laina:

laina:

this guy was watching the vmas with me and now he’s educating himself how precious is that

he keeps asking me all these questions about aspects of feminism and he’s like “so basically it’s about letting women do what they want without being judged for it” and I was like yea and he was like “oh okay that’s so simple why isn’t everyone a feminist” it’s precious

laina:

laina:

this guy was watching the vmas with me and now he’s educating himself how precious is that

he keeps asking me all these questions about aspects of feminism and he’s like “so basically it’s about letting women do what they want without being judged for it” and I was like yea and he was like “oh okay that’s so simple why isn’t everyone a feminist” it’s precious

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twinkerchief:

my religion: Queen Bey

twinkerchief:

my religion: Queen Bey

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love-england:

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alexandraerin:

pittisit18:

Isn’t it odd how everyone that supports abortion has already been born?

Strangely, everyone who opposes abortion has also been born. It’s almost like you have to be born to have opinions… like it’s part of the basic definition of being a person or something. I’m so glad you pointed that out. It’s a really great point.

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elenamorelli:

{ the canal, the reeds, the stars }

elenamorelli:

{ the canal, the reeds, the stars }